Romans Series Discussion Questions

October 1, 2023 - The Gospel Calls Us To Be All In

  1. Have you ever studied the full book of Romans? Do you feel like you studied it through the lens of an individual or a collective? What is the difference?

  2. According to Paul’s intro, the Church in Rome seems to be well-established and renowned for its life. What does that mean for the content of the letter?

  3. Paul makes it clear that his hope is to strengthen the church. Before jumping into this study, we should evaluate where we are. Is it possible that the point of studying Romans isn’t to learn something new but to be strengthened to do something that we know?

  4. A deeper understanding of what we already know should encourage us to love the Gospel and respond to the Gospel in deeper ways. How does this play out when you think about the use of the Old Testament Gospel? Have you thought about the power behind the Jewish family seeing the focus of Jesus and the Gentile family seeing a more profound history to the gospel through the Old Testament?

  5. Paul has an inevitable conclusion to our exposure to the Gospel. If we are ALL IN the Gospel then the Gospel will call us to live in an ALL IN manner of life. How does Paul drive this point home?

  6. How should being ALL IN become a new filter for studying the book of Romans? How should this constantly challenge your life and response to what you read?

October 8, 2023 - Going All In for the Gospel

  1. What would you imagine it would take to convince you to go all in playing poker at the risk of millions of dollars?

  2. Paul wasn't gambling, but we hear the same confidence in verse 17. Paul wasn't ashamed of the gospel. He was fully convinced of it and that it impacted ALL of his life! How does his confidence inspire or convict you?

  3. In the first seven verses, Paul shows that this confidence didn't come from information but from a transforming relationship with the gospel of Jesus Christ. Paul used terms like "slave of god" and "saints" to describe the inner transformation of himself and the believers. What did this look like for them and what transformation has taken place in your life because of Jesus?

  4. Paul also acknowledged an apostolic identity that is placed on believers’ lives. We are now given the purpose to share life transformation with the world and God's power to walk in that purpose. How does this purpose add meaning to every part of your life?

  5. Knowing that we are now in the story of God's gospel also bestows peace and confidence in life. How did this affect Paul's life, especially when things seemed to be difficult?

October 15, 2023 - Our Hearts are Broken

  1. Paul uses our sexual brokenness to reveal the state of our sinful hearts. What was the goodness reflected in God’s design for marriage?

  2. What is the consistent message throughout all of scripture? What is considered stepping out of his design?

  3. Paul used this to show us that we all follow our hearts, which leads to dishonoring the image of God, hindering His glorification through our lives, and walking away from His abundant life. How was this seen in the sins he lists in the end.

  4. Why must we clearly understand and trust in God’s design for life and morality?

  5. How does our recognition of our brokenness help us understand God’s goodness?

  6. How does our brokenness open doors to meeting others in their brokenness?

  7. We are all broken and in desperate need of a Savior that will meet us where we are and lead us to transformation and life in Him. Where are you on this journey?

October 22, 2023 - We make bad gods

  1. In verse 23, Paul says that we exchange the truth about God for images made to look like man. What does it look like to be our own god and create life our way?

  2. God uses creation, our bodies, and the law to reveal His image to us. How does this bring value to our masculinity and femininity? How does this challenge our inclination to make life all about ourselves?

  3. To step into God’s design, our humanity must first be challenged. How should we die to ourselves to find His purpose for glorifying Him?

  4. How surprising is it that bearing His image and living for His purpose brings goodness to our lives?

  5. Our world tells us to live for ourselves and our own truth. How does doing this create more conflict and division? Can everyone actually have life their own way and live in a common unified purpose?

October 29, 2023 - Embracing God’s Righteousness

  1. What resonated with you from the message/passage today?

  2. In what ways do we fall into the trap of thinking we are better than others because our sins may seem less serious or obvious?

  3. How does the idea of God's righteous judgment challenge our tendency to compare and judge others based on their sins?

  4. What would it mean if God was not all righteous and just?

  5. How does God's kindness lead us to repentance? How does it motivate us to turn away from our own sin? How did God’s Kindness impact your life?

  6. What practical steps can we take to respond to God's love and mercy in our lives? How can we show him gratitude and a genuine heart of repentance?

November 5, 2023 - Failing Law School

  1. How often have you found yourself using a sliding scale to rationalize your standing before God? Do you feel you are good enough in the grand scheme of things?

  2. Paul begins by calling to a universal moral law that is revealed through our conscience. He concludes by calling all of our "good enough" standards to be measured only by Jesus' perfection. What does that do to our sliding scale?

  3. He next uses himself and King David to address our attempts at perfectly living up to the Mosaic Law given to us. The law reveals who God is and who we are before God. Why do we get caught up in trying to live up to a perfect standard? Who is able to accomplish this?

  4. Paul then addresses our attempt at being sincere in our efforts before God. Talk through the many ways we as people have built systems of sincerity to die to self and be good enough. How is it possible to be wrong even in our sincerity?

  5. Coming to terms with our failure changes our hearts. We can't know the good news of the gospel unless we know how badly we need it. How does failing law school bring you to terms with your reality?

  6. You can't respond to amazing grace unless you see how amazing it is. Have you come to terms with your failure in a way that helps you understand how badly you need Jesus and how amazing this undeserved grace really is?

November 12, 2023 - Not - “Not my problem.”

  1. Have you met a person (or are you that person?) described by Michael who always finds an excuse?

  2. Most first evade the gospel by misrepresenting God’s story. Is there a point to the Old Testament? Why do we need to clearly understand its significance in the gospel story?

  3. Next, we would argue that more people would respond to the truth if it were actually true. What does it mean to move to convenience instead of truth? How have we as a people proven that? How do you commonly do this?

  4. Finally, we try to put the blame on God! Didn’t God make us sin and does my sin just make His grace more amazing? How does Paul address this accusation?

  5. Paul then used the Old Testament to shut us all up. How does this passage of Old Testament Scriptures reveal Jesus’ righteousness and our unrighteousness?

  6. Have you hit the point of shutting up and owning your sinful life? Have you hit the point of recognition and desperation in need of a Lord and Savior?

November 19, 2023 - Trading Places

  1. Can God be an all loving God and an angry God? What is the tension between His righteousness, our sin, and His grace?

  2. How did the law and prophets predict what Jesus would manifest? How is this seen in the festivals and the story of Moses and the bronze serpent?

  3. What is the difference between our sin being covered and us being justified through grace?

  4. What does redemption mean and why is Jesus the only one able to redeem?

  5. What is the scandal found in the propitiation of Jesus?

  6. Do you feel like you have faced the sacrifice of Jesus in a life changing way? What does it mean to believe in Jesus? What part do your emotions, mind, and will play in belief?

January 28, 2024 - Prolific Grace

  1. How would you describe the process of spiritual growth in your life? What have been some frustrating points? What has worked well?

  2. How much effort do seeds put into their growth? What are some things they need to allow them to grow? Do you think God has designed you to grow through works or response? What is the difference?

  3. Read Romans 4:2-5 and 3:25. What security do you find in knowing what Jesus did when you couldn’t do it? Why do you have nothing to boast in and what does it mean to boast in what He did?

  4. We often receive the gift of grace and then feel we need to work to maintain or earn what was given to us. How does this become a weight of evaluation seen in different areas of life and as defining characteristics of other religions? How is it a gift to have that weight lifted in the knowledge of what grace continues to do? How do you hear this in Bono’s quote.

  5. Grace is also seen in God’s character as one who fulfills promises. How was this seen in Abraham's life and how did this confidence help Abraham grow in faith? John Newton’s life is a good example of God making beauty out of something ugly. How did John experience what Jesus did, continue to do, and fulfill. How did John respond to grace and grow in grace?

February 4, 2024 - The Missing Piece of Peace

  1. What does your primal drive for SHALOM look like? How do you recognize what doesn’t feel right in this world?

  2. Where did Shalom start and how did we see it break with Adam?

  3. As our family head what becomes true of us in Adam?

  4. Jesus is the man of peace spoken of in Genesis 3:15. How did His grace give us a new identity of peace?

  5. This new identity helps us interact with the world differently. What does that look like?

  6. What is true of you because of what Jesus did to you?

February 11, 2024 - Dead to Sin, Alive to God

In verse 6 Paul states the difference between justification and sanctification. What are these two things?

Our sanctification (the progressive change that brings the body of sin to death) is often addressed through sin management. Has this ever been a struggle in your life?

Paul walks us through a growing relationship with truth through the four words Know, Believe, Consider, and Present. What is the importance of knowing what is true? How is that similar to a seed being baptized in soil? What obstacles usually prevents us from knowing?

Belief is more transactional. How did the gift card analogy demonstrate how we apply knowledge to life? What transaction happens between the seed and soil given time?

Considering the truth calls us to pray, meditate, and “do the math” with God. How does each word demonstrate a different relationship we are to have with what is true?

Paul’s main point in this passage is to show how sin “doesn’t make sense” when you know, believe, and consider what is true. How did you hear this in the way people addressed struggles in their lives? What does it mean for Identity to lead activity?

February 18, 2024 - Identity Leads Activity

  1. When have you made an identity change in your life that took a while to feel like a reality? Like the example of becoming a fireman.

  2. Paul picks up the same question of sin but addresses it differently. How does Paul use slave language to show how "what is true will lead what you do"? Compare being slaves to Egypt versus being a slave to God.

  3. Paul highlights the incongruity of being a slave to righteousness but presenting yourself to old ways of sin. How did it feel to see a healthy plant potted in a place of death?

  4. Paul's point was to show sinful behaviors still leading to death in life. How should you process the impact sin can still have in your life?

  5. Paul shows that we shouldn't change sinful habits to prove or earn our truth. Instead we should live in what is true to lead to a change in what we do. What is the sanctification of our hearts and minds?

  6. How do you see this relationship in Paul's, Peter, John, James, and Jesus' life and writings?

  7. How was this indicative/imperative relationship demonstrated in the families testimony of debt?

  8. What part of your life do you need to recognize as paths toward death?

  9. How do you pull that area of your life further into the truth of who you are in Jesus?

February 25, 2024 - New Life and the Law

  1. Studying the law may be one of the most dreaded and daunting things for a new believer. Have you ever been excited to study Leviticus?

  2. How did God use the law to form a new identity for Israel as they fled Egyptian slavery? How did the Law have jurisdiction over Israel?

  3. In verses 1-6 Paul uses death and marriage laws to help us see this drastic change with the Law. It no longer has jurisdiction over us! What does that mean?

  4. Jesus fulfilled the law so that it wouldn’t have authority over us anymore. Read Matthew 5:17-20. What are the different broad categories of the law and how did Jesus fulfill them?

  5. Paul shows us that the law still defines sin and provokes certain sins in us. How is this a good thing? How did this happen in Paul’s life? How does the law do this in your life?

  6. In verses 12-14 Paul reminds us that the Law is still Holy and can refine Holy love in us. How was this illustrated in the reading of Leviticus 14: 33 and Leviticus 19:9?

  7. How does the law challenge us to Holy Love through personal responsibility and generosity?

March 3, 2024 - The Subtle Shift That Matters

  1. How did a shift in mindset change Michael’s experience of kayaking from year one to year two?

  2. Paul is describing a sin cycle mindset in Romans 7:14-25. We’ve all been there! Take a moment to share the frustration of living in this cycle. Has it ever caused you to want to give up or live in shame and self-defeat?

  3. Notice how there is very little mention of God, Jesus, or the Holy Spirit in these verses. How is this a mindset set on the flesh?

  4. Now read Romans 8:1-6. What is the key difference in this mindset?

  5. The Dallas Willard quotes sum up what Paul is trying to help us see. Why should you evaluate what you are allowing to have authority in your mind?

  6. Paul calls us to walk in the Spirit, live in the Spirit, and set our minds on the Spirit. How does this mindset shift become powerful in light of who the Holy Spirit is?

  7. What place does the Word of God play in allowing the Holy Spirit to shape our understanding of our struggle?

  8. Why is it also important to change the way you see yourself through the Spirit's eyes?

  9. What does “doing the homework” look like to grow in your understanding of who the Spirit is, applying scripture to your specific struggle, and clothing yourself in Jesus?

  10. Remember it’s not about performance. It’s about learning more about your position and the process of the Spirit's work in your life. What is the difference?

March 17, 2024 - Living in the Spirit: Aiming Your Life at the Right Target

  1. What stood out to you from this portion of Romans/message?

  2. How is life messy for you right now?

  3. Where do you need to hold on to hope today?

  4. What “targets” are you tempted to aim your life at?

  5. Where in your experience has God been bringing beauty out of ashes?

  6. Center your prayer focus around the idea that “we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us”

April 14, 2024 - Family Matters

  1. Paul doesn't think it's too late for anyone to respond to the Gospel. He begins this passage by sharing his compassion and hope for the Israelites who have not responded to the Gospel. How does your heart feel towards those around you who haven't responded to the gospel?

  2. Put yourself in the context of the early church. Why was it so important for Paul to address these family issues in light of the question "Did God fail?".

  3. Paul goes through the family tree as seen in Genesis 15-50. In Romans 9:4-5 Paul lays the groundwork for God choosing Israel and giving them His identity, His promises, and His purpose toward Jesus Christ. How is this seen in Abraham’s story with Isaac? How did Abraham struggle to walk in God's path? Why was it important for Paul to show God's choosing family not to depend on bloodline?

  4. Next, we see Isaac is to receive the family Identity, promises, and purpose. How did Isaac also struggle to walk in God's chosen path? Why was Paul showing us that God's choosing of family does not revolve around works?

  5. We see the same theme play out with Jacob and Esau. This quote is from Malachi 1:1-6. Here Malachi uses Esau and the Edomites as an archetype to warn Israel. The same warning is used in Hebrews 12:15-17. Paul is showing us that God's choice of family identity, promises, and purpose don't depend on bloodline or works. However, God's people have often struggled to walk in what God has chosen. How does this play out with Esau and with the Jews of Paul's time?

  6. Will we follow in Jacob’s example of prioritizing God's identity, holding onto His promises, and living toward the purpose of Jesus Christ?

April 21, 2024 - Plotline & Purpose

  1. What is your favorite story (movie or book)? Why is this story so captivating to you?

  2. Paul continues to walk through the history of God’s chosen family. He picks up the story by comparing Jacob and Esau with Moses and Pharaoh. How did Moses respond to God’s mercy and how did Pharaoh become hardened?

  3. There is a tension found in God’s foreknowledge and our free will. How is this reflected in Exodus?

  4. Paul quotes Isaiah 45:9-12 to capture many of our hearts when we ask “Does God know what He’s doing?” Why can we trust God to know what is best and how to strengthen/harden people’s hearts?

  5. Paul then quotes Jeremiah 18 and 19 to show the character development of God’s family of mercy and the rebellious family. How does God use both of these to move His purpose forward?

  6. Jesus demonstrated the same use of character development to move His purpose forward. Why did Jesus use parables and make it hard for some to respond?

  7. Did God fail? Paul brings us all the way to the present in the reader’s life to show that God is still working and the reader finds themselves in this complicated storyline. As a reader where do you find yourself in the story of God’s purpose?

April 28, 2024 - Step Into Purpose

  1. What had Israel stumbled over and how was this a point of pride for Israel?

  2. What is the problem of our unrighteousness and God’s righteousness that Paul describes in Romans 10:1-7?

  3. Which have you struggled with more? Thinking you can be good enough or not recognizing the gravity of your sin?

  4. Take some time as a group to fully understand how Paul shared the gospel in verses 8-13. What does it mean to recognize Jesus as the eternal Word of God, confessing Him as LORD, and believing in the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus as the answer to your unrighteousness?

  5. What should the condition of one’s heart, mind, and life look like in connection to this reality? Can someone confess that and not be willing to be transformed?

  6. Paul then challenges the reader to have sacrificially beautiful feet. Read 2 Corinthians 10:23-28. What sacrifices did Paul have to make to share the good news? Who has God placed in your life to share the good news with and what challenges or sacrifices do you need to make?

May 5, 2024 - Full House

  1. What do you do when it seems like everything is falling apart and you don't see much good in the world? Have you ever struggled with this sentiment? In what ways?

  2. In Romans 11 Paul is addressing a small group of people who have responded to the incredible message of Jesus. But most of the Jews and Gentiles were not responding. What must it have felt like to see the world falling apart? What could this make the Church wonder about God?

  3. Paul lifts the church's head up to see the big picture. Does God intend to keep his covenant promises and has He proven to continue toward that purpose? Trusting God with the bigger picture should change our attitude! How so?

  4. Paul uses Elijah as an example of finding peace when you can't see what God is doing. God was telling Elijah to not despair because He has always and still is preserving a remnant that is responding. What message did that send to a Church that must have struggled to find peace?

  5. Paul next draws our attention to the fact that we are not bystanders in God's intent to fulfill His purpose. We play a part in Israel returning to Him! Not only can we trust God and find peace, we also find meaning in being used for God's big picture purpose. How does "playing a part" bring meaning to dark circumstances?

May 12, 2024 - Grafted In

  1. Paul is referred to as a missionary to the Gentiles. Which Gentiles is Paul most known to have reached? (hint: part of the answer is found in the names of his epistles)

  2. Paul uses the illustration of an olive tree having branches grafted into itself. What or Who is the trunk of the tree? Who are the natural branches? And Who are the many wild branches?

  3. Have you ever noticed the theme of "all the nations" that runs from beginning to end of the Bible?

  4. What happens in your heart when you hear the statistics of the unreached nations?

  5. What part did Paul play in that? What part do you feel you are called to engage in?

  6. How do our attitudes often prevent us from participating in the grafting of many nations?

  7. How should our worship of Jesus provoke a greater grafting in other nations?